Contentment & Well Being - A Simple Search for Soul
Author: Sara | Category: SimplicityPhoto Credit: ltl-light
How well do you know yourself? Does what you know about who you are and how you interact with others, everyday, give you a feeling of purpose, achievement, and contentment?
Every person needs a certain amount of material comfort such as food, shelter, and clothing, of course; and it’s important to care about others and be cherished by them as well. However, in order to live a happy, balanced and simple life, as human beings, people need to take care of emotional needs and not just the physical and visceral kind that sustain life.
To be able to fill your emotional needs, it is necessary to set aside a certain amount of time to pursue deep and meaningful relationships. Many people work so hard to fill their lives with things, or feel authentic, relevant and important, that they don’t take any time to connect with family members, life-partners, and friends.
Life and its pivotal moments fly by and people don’t even make the time to take a look at how their lifestyle is either helping them achieve their goals, or keeping them from having an opportunity to pursue dreams and have meaningful moments and memories.
Often, an entire week can pass without your having one conversation for the pure joy of reaching out to , and finding out about, someone on a deeper level than just saying “how are you”, with them giving the obligatory knee-jerk response, “fine”. Neglecting the relationships that we should cherish, is like putting a brick wall between yourself and the activities that enrich you, and give your life the meaning and purpose you seek.
When you decide to make time to nourish and nurture your meaningful relationships with loved ones, you are also becoming fully present in your life and in the wonderful world around you. It can be as if you are seeing every object, person and place in a new way, with dimension, scope, and presence.
This kind of happy and content existence is defined as simplistic. Some say that it is a way of living from the “center of your being”, or from the best and deepest part of your soul. How do you reach that inner most part of yourself? Is there some straight line from the brain to your core, where peace and serenity are waiting for you?
The most content and serene people that I know, have learned to have acceptance about the process of being interactive in the world. They try to do work that is satisfying and fulfilling, and make an effort to:
a. Be honest
b. Practice kindness
c. Be generous
d. Demonstrate love and friendship
e. Have compassion for others
f. Find contentment by wanting less
Being the best and most virtuous person you can be, gives you freedom to live in the moment because you never have to rethink your own behavior. You can count on yourself to do what is right. Taking the time in each day to have peaceful thoughts, and practice patience, as well as, finding moments to goof off and have a little laughter and fun, is as essential to your well-being and soulfulness, as having food and shelter.
Making the center of your world a place where quiet times are celebrated, people are valued, listened to, and loved; and living within and even beneath your means, is an everyday practice that gives you more choices to simply be happy and content.
It takes work and effort to find your life’s force or soul, and truly get to know yourself and those you love on deeper levels than just sharing ordinary daily tasks and troubles. Meditation and spending quiet times in celebration of each other, and all that the world you share offers, from a rainbow, to the sunrise, to a sky filled with billions of twinkling stars; this is where you find your core, your soul, your contentment and sustainable happiness.
It does not take the making of a million dollars to live a life of inestimable value. It takes a desire to live a simple existence, in the deepest and truest way.









